Several years ago, we had Spanish-speaking friends visiting in our home. While we chatted, my husband, who doesn’t speak Spanish, started making friends with their six-year-old son. I looked over and saw Jaime say something in Spanish, which of course, my husband did not understand. Jaime looked expectantly for a second, then leaned in close to my husband’s OTHER ear and repeated his statement very loudly, not realizing that what he was facing was a language barrier, not a hearing impairment.
I’ve recalled that moment so
often throughout the years. Each time a child is re-taught a concept when he
didn’t get it the first time, I think of Jaime shouting in my husband’s other
ear thinking that this time, with a new ear and louder volume, he would be
heard. When we teach a failing child in the same way we taught when first she
failed, we are in essence shouting in the child’s “good ear.”
If the child fails a second time, he will inevitably experience a sense of inadequacy which will contribute greatly to yet another failure. The spiral of failure will deepen because of the huge impact a negative emotional state has on a child’s ability to think, learn, and remember.
What I have seen happen after repeated failure is that the child will begin to do things that will only make for more problems. She might act out, mouth off, quit, slump, glaze over, rebel, or any number of other tactics to avoid having to feel the pain of failure.
Articles in The New York Times and The Wall Street Journal cited falling SAT reading scores this year, in spite of the efforts of No Child Left Behind. Shortly after reading those articles, the phone rang. A mother of a 7 year old was calling to discuss our Easy-For-Me® Reading Program. She has a 7 year old who is struggling with dyslexia, who, because of repeated failure, had gone from loving to hating books. This mother had searched endlessly for a program that would approach teaching of reading in a way that was different from traditional approaches. She found many, many programs available, but all the ones she looked at were basically the same…until she found the Easy-For-Me® program through an online search.
What sets the Easy-For-Me® approach apart (and in fact, all the Child1st learning resources) is that we are NOT traditional. We teach phonics explicitly, similar to the Orton Gillingham approach, but we embed visuals and movement in every part of the learning. We get the child reading words almost immediately. We use multiple modalities so that there are multiple regions of the brain being stimulated. We combine right and left brain approaches to activate both hemispheres of the brain. As a result, children who have been experiencing a voice shouting loudly in their good ear will finally encounter something which they can understand and which will bring them out of the spiral of failure and discouragement in which they have been lost.